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All the hugs: Rolla moms bring the love to campus during finals

Carrie Miller (right), a member of the Rolla Mom Huggers group, hugs a student in front of the library at Missouri S&T.
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Carrie Miller (right), a member of the Rolla Mom Huggers group, hugs a student in front of the library at Missouri S&T.

Being away from home at college, especially during finals week, can be a stressful experience.

That’s why a group of moms from Rolla Vineyard Church stand in front of the Missouri University of Science and Technology library once a month shouting words of encouragement and giving high-fives and hugs.

Carrie Miller held a sign that said, “Free Mom Hugs” on a recent, cold, December day.

Carrie Miller gives a student a high-five.
Credit Jonathan Ahl | St. Louis Public Radio
Carrie Miller gives a student a high-five.

“You’re awesome! We’re so proud of you! You’ve got this!” are just some of the things she shouts out to students walking by.

Some of the students passed by and gave a smile and nod. Some gave her a high-five. One student came in for a hug, lingered a bit, and then walked away quickly.

“She failed a test,” Miller said of the girl she just hugged. “And I said, ‘girl, don’t worry, there’s going to be another one, and I believe in you.’ She just bawled. Broke down in my arms.”A group of moms in Rolla are giving hugs, high-fives and words of encouragement to students at Missouri S&T to help them through the hard times that sometimes come with college life.

They are known as the Rolla Mom Huggers. Tracie Devault started the group. She teaches speech at S&T, and regularly sees students struggling with the pressures of college life. She thought she and the women from her church could make a difference.

Rolla Mom Hugger Tracie Devault and her support dog, Angus, help Missouri S&T students de-stress outside the library.
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Rolla Mom Hugger Tracie Devault and her support dog, Angus, help Missouri S&T students de-stress outside the library.

“I’ve seen it, first hand, how much these students can struggle in school. And I know that a kind word, a hug from a mom who understands can mean a lot,” Devault said.

Marie Allen, interim pastor the the Vineyard Church in Rolla where the Mom Huggers attend, said supporting the students is part of her congregation’s outreach efforts to spread love.

“These college kids are part of our community, and they are so important to us,” Allen said. “And we know there is so much pressure here at the university.”

Patti Fleck, director of counseling services at Missouri S&T, said she and her counselors see students regularly wrestling with stress and pressure. She said the huggers may help.

Vineyard Church interim pastor Marie Allen gives a high-five to a student on campus at Missouri S&T
Credit Jonathan Ahl | St. Louis Public Radio
Vineyard Church interim pastor Marie Allen gives a high-five to a student on campus at Missouri S&T

“Random acts of kindness, or even more importantly, intentional acts of kindness and civility and support can really make a difference,” Fleck said.

The Rolla Mom Huggers plan to continue their support of the students. They will be back in January, and once a month, every month during the school year.

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Jonathan Ahl joined Iowa Public Radio as News Director in July 2008. He leads the news and talk show teams in field reporting, feature reporting, audio documentaries, and talk show content. With more than 17 years in public media, Jonathan is a nationally award-winning reporter that has worked at public radio stations in Macomb, Springfield and Peoria, IL. He served WCBU-FM in Peoria as news director before coming to Iowa. He also served as a part-time instructor at Bradley University teaching journalism and writing courses. Jonathan is currently serving a second term as president of PRNDI ââ
Jonathan Ahl
Jonathan Ahl reports from the Rolla Bureau for St. Louis Public Radio. His duties also include covering central and southern Missouri for Harvest Public Media. Before coming to St. Louis Public Radio in November of 2018, Jonathan was the General Manager for Tri States Public Radio in Macomb, Illinois. He previously was the News Director at Iowa Public Radio and before that at WCBU in Peoria, Illinois. Jonathan has also held reporting positions in central Illinois for public radio stations. Jonathan is originally from the Chicago area. He has a B.A. in Music Theory and Composition from Western Illinois University and an M.A. in Public Affairs Reporting from the University of Illinois at Springfield. He is an avid long distance runner, semi-professional saxophonist and die-hard Chicago Cubs fan.